Marriage Poll Your husband lifts his head from the credit card statement and says, "I've noticed a little more shopping than usual and restaurant charges, for that matter. Is there something you want to tell me?"Callemonit. Be suggestive, "Well Honey, you're always so busy and don't have time for me...so I go to the mall, do a little shopping, and eat lunch with the girls."Callemonit. Be direct, "Hey Hun, you know about serotonin right, the feel good chemical in our brains. Well, women need more of it to be happy. And one way we get a boost of serotonin is from the love and attention of our husbands. So when we don't get those two simple things, we go shopping and out to eat with the girls for our fix. That pretty much explains the credit card bill."Ignore. He's all about the numbers. "No problem Hun, I'll ease off the credit card."Ignore. I try to tell him about wanting his attention, and he tells me I'm too needy.Other. Please put your answer in the Comment Box below. This might actually be a simple fix if husband and wife could get on the same page regarding allocating time for each other. I appreciate your participation. Thank you!Vote
